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Hi, I’m James. The Unknown is a free online relationship advice repository and breakup support community. A home for those who don’t believe in magic bullets, but are looking for a ray of clarity to craft their own solutions.

Dealing With Rejection After A Relationship Break Up

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Feeling rejected after a relationship breakup can catalyze pain by adding an element of self-loathing (and self-pity) to the healing process. It is important to both realize and act without become too self-conscious, before thoughts spiral out of control and chain our self-image. Separating love and rejection Those of you who have read other articles … Read more

Top 10 Relationship Mistakes You Won’t Be Making Again

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While being single can be a time of excess and freedom (once the trauma has passed) it should also be a time to honestly reflect on what went wrong. On the one hand you will need to abandon feelings of bitterness and guilt in order to accurately delve your personal mistakes from the ashes of … Read more

Top 10 Reasons You’re Better Off Single

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There are two ways of looking at everything, and every curse is a blessing in disguise (in some ways). Instead of focusing on what you’ve lost, it’s time to smile and think of everything you stand to gain. What better way to beginning you new life away from an addictive relationship than by grabbing it by the cojones and improving it dramatically? Without further a-do I bring you ten surefire reasons you’re better off single.

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Get Your Ex Back The Right Way

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The Internet has been awash in recent years with a veritable tide of relationship quick-fix solutions that cater to a desperate crowd because they know it sells. This preying usually leads the traumatized dumpee to resort to mind-games which in one form or another attempt to starve and isolate the dumper into contacting the dumpee. … Read more

How To Get Over An Addictive Relationship

All relationships are, to some extent, addictive. Almost every (it isn’t always the case) dumpee I have spoken too has admitted that despite the trauma and pain caused by the relationship breakup, they know their relationship had dwindled into something unhealthy and patently unhappy for all involved.

Despite this, and despite the fact that they may wish to move on entirely, they feel caught in a web of emotions that are dependent on the actions and thoughts of others. Even when they caress the thought of once more being in control, all it takes is a smile, a rumor, or fleeting (crumbs) contact to send a dumpee into a renewed spiral of pain and mental anguish.

Beginning to find peace is not a question of closure and it most certainly does not require reconciliationRelease requires a tremendous amount of self-discipline. Instead of scouring the web for articles that may offer you an umbrella while a category five storm threatens to drown you, let’s draw an objective line and do what needs to be done to salvage your strength, dignity and health.

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